It started by an accidental introduction through an acquaintance. Needless to say, after one try I'm hooked. It was an ancient art reserved for royalty then, but nowadays even a commoner could have access to it, you just need to know where to look for it. The beauty about it is that the act of two people could invoke so many senses found in the human body.
The session would start with a warm bath. As it is an affair with lots of personal contact, hygiene plays an important part. And during the session, you would always be in the submissive mode. The surrounding must also be conducive and with some privacy as you wouldn't want any voyuer or peeping-tom about. Lubricant plays a major part in this, as too little might be uncomfortable and too much you lose the sensation. As for protection, it really depends on personal preferences. With all human emotions, it starts with a warm and tingling feeling at the heart before the sensation ventures away to every part of the body. The sensation would have different effect for each person, to some soothing and relaxing, to other unbearable pain as I've seen grown men cried during the session.
For me, I would consider myself threshold for the sensation above average. I could withstand all that the giver could muster and have room for some more. You have to create a bond with your giver, only then that you could explore the limits of yourself. Depending on your time allowance and physical condition, the session would go from 30 mins to 1 hour. I've known some hardcores who did for 2 hours straight but they're on a different level from the rest of us.
But the most important thing of all are the movements of the giver. Some would be very abrupt, some would be very sensous and it's only by trial that you could find the ones suitable for you. I've drawn a line for those who uses apparatus as I found that they could be inflicting more damage than good. As they always say in show business, "Follow the talent", once you've found the one, keep track as the giver would always move about. But regardless of the style of movement, you should be relaxed and spent after the session. It used to be a weekly affair for me but due to the current workload, it has been a monthly affair but I would try to keep it up as it is the classic case case of 'can't get it at home'.
For me, I would consider myself threshold for the sensation above average. I could withstand all that the giver could muster and have room for some more. You have to create a bond with your giver, only then that you could explore the limits of yourself. Depending on your time allowance and physical condition, the session would go from 30 mins to 1 hour. I've known some hardcores who did for 2 hours straight but they're on a different level from the rest of us.
But the most important thing of all are the movements of the giver. Some would be very abrupt, some would be very sensous and it's only by trial that you could find the ones suitable for you. I've drawn a line for those who uses apparatus as I found that they could be inflicting more damage than good. As they always say in show business, "Follow the talent", once you've found the one, keep track as the giver would always move about. But regardless of the style of movement, you should be relaxed and spent after the session. It used to be a weekly affair for me but due to the current workload, it has been a monthly affair but I would try to keep it up as it is the classic case case of 'can't get it at home'.
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